First let me tell you a little about Linda and I. We are both in our mid-50′s, she is 56 and I am 57. We have been married for 38 years and have been involved in the swinging lifestyle for about 30 of those 38 years (so much for the argument that swinging will ruin a marriage). I think that one of the most important things to make a marriage last is the realization your mate is your friend and not your possession. They can enjoy all forms of entertainment that life has to offer and still remain your sole mate.
Young couples today have it so much easier to find and enjoy the lifestyle than we did when we first got started. Back then we didn’t have the Internet with a number of swingers sites to find other like-minded couples. When we first got started we used the classified sections of some swinger magazines and snail mail to contact other couples. We would have to send a letter to the magazine with a Polaroid picture and they would forward it to the couples we were trying to reach. It would take weeks before you would hear back from them and start a correspondence. Not like today when you can chat with another couple in a swingers chat room and get together with them by the next weekend.
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